I have just had a look on the website called She's a homewrecker.com as well as the UK version of it. I have to say, even though I have been betrayed I do not know how I feel about seeing these women's photos who have been in an affair on these websites. Part of me feels disgust when I look at their faces. Did they not think that what they were doing would eventually result in them being outed. Furthermore, as women, they should more than realise the saying that 'hell hath no fury like a women scorned!'
I try and see what it must be like from their perspective to do what they have done but when I do I feel utter disgust. Sure the thrill of illicit sex must be quite potent and having your own little secret world to escape into with your affair partner must be such a kick. However, that little bubble at some point bursts and the fallout, from what I have seen, is not worth it at all. If anything, it's made me realise that those who do go down the affair path are lacking foresight and are really living for the thrill of the moment. Unfortunately, what is a thrill for them ends up being pain and agony for those who are their primary partners.
I have got a couple of ebooks up on Amazon called Don't Give Her Your Power and Don't Give Him Your Power. If anyone who is reading this and is going through the pain of infidelity I suggest you give it a read. I hope they will be of some help to those who are in pain from the fallout of their partner's affair.
...Why does the pain of an affair hurt so much? That question can only be truly answered by those who have experienced it, and as someone who has, I hope this blog can offer some insight to the agony that you are facing.